I've been using tampons for a long time, but I still think classic pads are safer. Especially on heavy days, which one is more comfortable and hygienic? Do you think I should completely give up one of them? By the way, I don't understand my family's reaction to me using tampons at all. Are they right in what they say?
On busy days, that long-lasting feeling of sitting on the pad is killing me. When I wake up in the morning, the pad is either twisted or overflowed. That's why I find tampons more comfortable, but they need to be changed frequently for hygiene reasons, otherwise there's a risk of infection.
I feel freer when I use tampons too, but honestly, pads still feel safer for overnight use. I'm a bit anxious about having a tampon in for so many hours while I sleep, because things like Toxic Shock Syndrome always cross my mind.
I think you should stop interfering with everything, please. Using tampons is not about being modern or traditional; it's purely a matter of comfort and preference. But you could also try to discuss and understand their concerns a bit, maybe you're blowing it out of proportion.
When choosing between tampons or pads, the main thing to pay attention to is not to create a suitable environment for bacteria. Tampons should not be kept in for more than 4-6 hours. With pads, moisture can irritate the skin, so it's important to change them frequently. Use whichever you feel more comfortable with, but you must adhere to these hygiene rules.
I want to add this: I change my tampon regularly but my family still says things about virginity. According to them, the excuse of modernity is just that, an excuse, and I'm tired of explaining myself. Is there really such a connection?
I think the perception that a tampon is some kind of indicator of modernity is completely wrong. Could the family's insistence be just traditional pressure or do they have other fears? It seems like there might be other concerns in the background.
Virginity or what is modern is entirely related to your body. Convincing your family is not your duty. Whatever you have decided is good for you, the rest is their taboos and prejudices. Women are already made to feel like they have to defend themselves constantly.
