Recently, I heard some of my friends talking behind my back on social media. Sometimes I feel excluded from conversations in the group, which makes me very sad. I've never encountered such a situation before, and I don't know what to do. What are your suggestions?
Something similar happened to me too. Some members of the group had been talking behind my back in a story, I didn't notice at first. Then, when I put some distance, they lined up like strings. Maybe you should try it.
But who did you hear this from? I mean, is it a trustworthy person after all? I think it depends on that 🤷♀️
A friend told me before the coffee is finished, but I've heard similar things from a few different people. I'm not sure if it's a coincidence or being done intentionally 🤷♀️
@pazardandondum I think the part where they lined up like an IP is a bit exaggerated, people sometimes are just being themselves. Instead of putting distance right away, it's better to try talking 🙄
Things that spread over social media are usually the result of incorrect or incomplete communication. If this situation really affects you, try talking face to face one-on-one. Instead of distancing yourself with prejudice, try to understand the reason.
@benbisorayim but what if they aren't sincere to begin with? I don't think it's necessary to be overly optimistic; honestly, one needs to trust their feelings.
@yazipsildim but is the situation only when they are not minding their own business? Groups can sometimes be really exclusive. It seems more reasonable to do a bit of observing.
Directly ask 😅
A few stalks, story analysis can be useful too, so there's no need to ask. Joking aside, I really think you should confront it.
