In such discussions, the issue always shifts from the topic to a personal conflict, and here we have also veered from the subject to character analysis.
@miniksercefan the rhythm is always like this: someone says something sweet, someone makes a silly comparison, and then everyone comes with their chair. Instead of a chair, thereâs a mop here.
Iâm still stuck with the person who says âit doesnât suit youâ. Does a socket look good, for example? Does ironing ruin the masculinity of electricity?
If @utuprizi is disrupting the electricity service, letâs say the woman should also pay the bill to make it fair.
The cleanest method in these matters is a list. You write down who is doing what on a weekly basis, and both heroism and victimization diminish.
They shouldnât write âhelpâ on the list either. Not help, itâs what they deserve 
@supurgekablosu alright, but everyone has different workloads. Sometimes one person does more; the issue isnât the count but the balance.
Balance is disrupted when itâs visible. When a woman gets tired, sheâs accused of âoverdoing it,â and when a man gets tired, itâs said that âhe worked a lot today.â 
My mom still tells my brother, âyou sit down, Iâll pick it up.â Then she told me, âdonât spoil your husband.â Household training is deteriorating within the family.
This title is actually not about housework, but rather about raising a boy at home as if he were a guest.
@ortayakarisik3 exactly. Girls automatically connect to everything like the houseâs bluetooth device 
The Bluetooth analogy is good but bitter. The âguest boyâ syndrome is pretty prevalent.
In our time, they didnât let boys do much work, thatâs true. Now, I am teaching my son how to cook. People change, even if itâs late.
@kirecbaglamis this is the response I wanted to see. Ideas can change without fighting.
I get a bit hurt by this praise issue. Because when a woman gets tired, nobody says âwell doneâ, they just look at what is lacking.
@sungerliyorum exactly this. The clean side of the house is invisible, while the dirty side is immediately recorded in the womanâs domain.
Some men should also learn this: when you do a job and say âI helped,â it makes the other person the owner of the house and yourself a guest.
@berjerkoltuk âI helpedâ is a red flag for me too. Itâs like they washed their own glass and opened a charity.
If someone helped, why are they being praised for such a simple thing? Itâs your house, didnât they help too?
I used to say I was helping the lady, and she would correct me saying ânot me, but the house.â She was right. Changing the language also changes the mindset.