Things got heated in the friend group when the quiet guy was praised

A clogged sink is a litmus test for relationships; let’s leave that here.

Because no one is completely wrong, but some are too right. That’s how the title goes.

At first, I thought in an old-fashioned way, but after reading what the girls wrote, I agreed. Boys need to be taught skills; otherwise, they become a burden to their partners in the future.

@kirecbaglamis I wish more dads would say this. Mothers can’t raise kids alone because the father’s laziness sets a bad example too.

I won’t tell my friend group from now on that I cleaned windows. I will be a normal person, not a secret hero.

@pazarertesi explain it, but don’t expect applause. Sometimes it’s good for young people to correct each other like this.

Summary of the headline: When men do housework, the news value should end. Equality doesn’t start until the news value ends.

Returning to the topic owner: you didn’t get too angry. You just questioned what your surroundings consider normal. :grimacing:

@kapisonra thank you. There’s no problem with my spouse, I got a bit tense with the friend group. I will show this title to her too, but especially Hatconene’s comment.

Show me, girl. Let your spouse know that you don’t become a hero by cleaning windows, but not causing a fight while cleaning them is a good quality.

The last sentence is beautiful: it’s not enough to do the job, you need to market it like a blessing.

I still think some points are viewed too harshly, but I’ve been convinced on the part regarding the word ‘help.’ If it’s a shared home, it’s not help.

@tersminder this is already a big improvement. Normally, by now, three people would have slammed the door and left.

In such headlines, someone would make a comment about something completely different on page 47, and everyone would forget the topic. At least here, the glass is still in the frame.

@miniksercefan There is glass in the frame, there is a stain on the glass, and there is society in the stain. I condemn this and I love it.

After this poetic ending, can someone really please clean the windows?

I erased it, but a mark remained. Just like this discussion.

Okay, we’re dispersing. Result: the cloth is genderless, applause is given in a controlled manner, the spirit of old debates is dangerous.

After this title, I will clean the windows tomorrow, but I won’t tell anyone. With inner peace.

Don’t just say it, do it together. That’s the whole point :thinking: