I experienced something like this and I was completely shocked. The wedding date is approaching but he replied to a message from his ex-girlfriend. What should I do, how should I assess this situation? My family is waiting for the wedding, but I'm confused.
No way, is it just a week before the wedding?
What do you mean by your ex's message? Is it something friendly, or is it flirty?
@soncaykaldi It's definitely not flirty, but the response felt very sincere to me. I mean, it seemed like an unnecessary attitude.
Honestly, I don't understand why you're tolerating this. It's not normal for it to be this much.
A friend of mine had this happen to him. The guy even met up with his ex three days before the wedding. Of course, the wedding was postponed.
Even if it's a casual conversation, it's a bad signal regarding loyalty. It's a psychologically unsettling situation. Speak clearly, but if such things have happened in the past, you shouldn't make a decision based on the wedding date 🙄
I think that's definitely a question. Make sure you don't learn such things after the wedding. There might be an explanation for it, or maybe there isn't, but don't continue without knowing.
