My fiancé and I are entering our second year together, and our wedding is approaching. The other day, I noticed on Instagram that he liked a new photo of his ex. I asked him directly, and he said, "Just out of habit, I might have clicked it." I don’t know, but it bothered me. I thought I didn’t have trust issues, but this made me uneasy. Am I overreacting, or are my feelings normal?
What has become habitual for you? Sorry, but it directly leads to an argument 🙄
Is there something on social media that your hands might be used to? I really don't understand. Would someone connect with someone they don't like like this?
My ex-boyfriend did something similar; at first, I didn’t pay much attention, but then the same type of behaviors kept happening. Honestly, there was something off in his head.
So, did you see that this old flame liked a photo of yours before? Or is this the first time something like this happened?
I noticed it for the first time @iki_dakika, but for some reason, I have a feeling that you might have done it before. I didn't take a detailed look.
Speak without dramatizing. Say that you're uncomfortable, otherwise it will just continue like this.
@pazardandondum why should someone follow somebody who's already gone? Things like mistrust really affect marriage.
This seems like a communication problem. Perhaps your fiancé doesn't pay attention to the small details and hasn't been able to understand your emotions. You might try teaching him to empathize. But if this keeps happening, it may be worth discussing it with a therapist.
I don't think about a second chance. If it starts like this, the rest will be difficult.
