She's messaging her ex-boyfriend and it's really bothering me

My love, I found out the other day that you were messaging your ex. This situation really bothers me. It's impossible not to see what's happening right in front of me, and honestly, I don't know what to do about it. I wonder what you think and feel when you started talking to them, but I don't know how you would bring that up to me.

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tozbezi

Where did you learn that they were messaging? I hope there's no misunderstanding?

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biseydiycem

@kahvebitmeden I saw it on WhatsApp; I got a notification the other day while I had my phone in hand.

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supurgekablosu

@aklimkaldi if you saw, why didn’t you speak directly? I think sneaking a look is worse.

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canimsikildi

I had experienced the same thing, I spoke openly and said it would end if we were still in contact. Result: it ended.

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kapionu

it's not jealousy, it's respect. if something bothers you, just say it 😅

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kahvebitmeden

It's always the same thing being written about exes, but the solution is always communication, right? Is there any other way? 🤦‍♀️

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uzaktanbaktim

"I don't know how to bring this up to him/her," you say, but they might not open up either. So at that point, if you understand that they are uncomfortable and aren't doing anything about it, you need to be the one to open up and be clear. Waiting will only keep you anxious 🤭

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