I've been thinking about getting a nose job for a long time, and I even got a price quote from a doctor. But when my boyfriend said, 'I like your natural look more,' it confused me. Living with a version of myself that I don't want makes me unhappy. Should I listen to my boyfriend's opinion, or should I just think about my own happiness? How do you think I should decide?
I think your feelings are more important. When your boyfriend says, 'I love you more in your natural state,' he is approaching you with good intentions, but in the end, it's your nose and your life. Living with something you don't want would be difficult 🙂
But the situation here is very clear, I think. Your partner has openly said, "I think there's no need at all." I mean, they love you, they like you just the way you are. Why would there be a need for such a thing? If they say there's no need, take a moment to think about it.
Actually, such situations are quite common. Aesthetic surgeons generally present viewpoints that alleviate concerns, but what’s important here is your self-confidence. If you have doubts about this, you can also seek psychological counseling before the process. It would be helpful to clarify whether the part that bothers you is psychological or physical.
Let me add this too, friends, I have actually been used to the idea of aesthetics for a long time. So this is not a decision I made suddenly. My partner had never spoken so clearly about this topic before when it came up. Lately, have they started to speak more assertively about it? 😳
So guys, does everything end when someone says "no need"? If we apply logic, does the unappealing state of the person saying "no need" affect them so much that they talk like this? I think it's pretty meaningless 🫠
