Halam told my family about my irregularities in my cycle, and now everyone is curious. I’m also scared to go to the gynecologist, and I don’t want to talk about it. The more my family talks about it, the more anxious I get, as if everyone is watching me. How should I behave now?
what’s this got to do with anything?
My mom was like that too. But she took me straight to the doctor because my periods were getting more frequent at that time. I had an ovarian cyst.
Why did Halan feel the need to say this? Did they ask privately or did it come out of the blue?
I think you shouldn’t postpone just because you’re scared. It’s essential to go to the gynecologist because leaving this irregular can lead to more serious issues in the future.
@soncaykaldi says he’s afraid to go to the doctor anyway. We can’t say it’s that simple while he’s under this much stress, especially under pressure.
@yazipsildim actually, my aunt always sticks her nose into things like this, but when it opened out of nowhere, my mom seriously started interrogating me 
Menstrual irregularity is quite common and usually relates to hormonal balance. However, if it has become very irregular in recent months, you should definitely consult a doctor. An ultrasound and a simple blood test can clarify the situation.
If Halan has a habit of bringing up things like this, could she also be talking about other issues related to you? Maybe it’s not just about the rules, and it might be necessary to have a conversation with your mom about this situation and set some boundaries.