Mobbing started at the workplace where I got pregnant, what should I do?

I experienced the same thing; when someone gets pregnant in our company, everyone goes into 'avoiding work' mode, so they would completely exclude her. When I was taken off projects, I went to HR, and they said, 'this isn't a family company.' But I kept records and gathered evidence with emails. I think you should do the same, and then if necessary, you can pursue legal action.

Your partner told you to "keep quiet," but I think it's the opposite. If you stay silent, they'll completely overlook you. To secure your position, you need to defend your rights before giving birth. For example, directly ask your manager, "Why am I being pulled out of the projects?" 🫠

It seems like there's a labor law issue here. If they make a dismissal on the grounds of pregnancy, it would be considered discrimination and would violate the Labor Law. Make sure to document things like being removed from the project or not being invited to meetings in writing. If the bullying continues, you can contact the Ministry of Labor's Alo 170 hotline.

By the way, let me add that the manager's comment about "post-pregnancy" bothers me even more. It seems like I'm guaranteed to be unemployed after giving birth. Wouldn't it be difficult to prove mobbing in order to file a lawsuit?

Consult a labor law attorney immediately. Request in writing via email to inquire about being excluded from the project or not being called to the meeting. Ask questions like, 'What was the reason for the meeting?' or 'Why was I removed from the project?' You can use these emails as evidence if you need to go to labor court.

What they're doing is a direct violation of rights. They disregard your efforts and use your pregnancy as an excuse. Both public conscience and the legal system clearly do not accept this attitude. You need to stand strong, taking ownership of your work and your child; this is their misguided management approach.

So many suggestions have been written, but no one has questioned the issue of the spouse. I mean, having your partner say "they'll eat you up" is inherently disempowering. Why are they scaring you even more instead of offering support? With that kind of reasoning, everyone would stay silent, and those who commit injustices would do as they please. In the long term, it will be difficult to cope with this state of mind.