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Para & Ekonomi21 Nisan 2026
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My credit card debt is going to ruin my relationship with my fiancée

Hey girls, I think I've officially become a shopaholic; I buy everything I see. My credit card limits are completely maxed out, and I can't even pay the minimum anymore. I really need to do something about it, but I feel like I can't stop—it's like I'm stuck in a pit. Plus, my fiancé and I were supposed to save together. I have no idea what to tell him. Please give me some advice, I really need it.

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pazardandondum

the stress of not even being able to pay the minimum on a credit card is really draining, especially having to deal with that joint savings issue with your fiancé feels like a total nightmare crushing down on you. I totally understand you 🥲

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benbisorayim

I swear I experienced exactly the same thing last year; my limits were overflowing too. I couldn't tell my fiancé, so I went and took a loan from a bank to pay it all off. Then I secretly paid off that loan as well, but it seriously took years off my life. 🤦‍♀️

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cokdaseyapma

I think you should just go and cancel all your cards and honestly tell your fiancée; otherwise, when that savings issue comes up, it will blow up even bigger. So take precautions now.

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