Patronum is learning about my private life this way and telling everyone in the office as if it's a joke. I shared something on social media once, but I don't know if that's where he got it from. Now everyone has heard about my request to raise my salary. Is this kind of thing normal, and how can I put a stop to it?
Look, this is definitely not professional behavior. Go directly to your boss and tell them about your discomfort, clearly stating that they shouldn't share such personal matters. You could even put it in writing, it might come in handy later 🤷♀️
I think you should review your social media. If you are sharing so openly there, it could be misused in the work environment. Limit your sharing, and if necessary, exclude your coworkers. But also tell your boss to stop; this is becoming disturbing.
This is a complete violation of boundaries. It is unacceptable for someone in a position of power to make the employee's private life the subject of ridicule. This is not sincerity; it is a clear misconduct. I suggest considering reporting it to the supervisory authority.
I want to say something, but we can't say your boss is stalking you if you've shared it on social media. People will see this, especially those at work. If you don't want to spread your private life, you shouldn't post it in places where everyone can see. You should be a bit more careful too.
From the perspective of labor law, there is a principle of privacy regarding personal life. It is important to clearly express your discomfort. If the same behavior continues, you can make an official complaint to HR. Written evidence will also make things easier for you.
Let me update you, my boss doesn't follow me on social media. So I don't think he gets it from there; I wonder if someone is telling him. But as you said, I'll try to talk to him, more seriously 🤷♀️
I swear someone in the office might be carrying your secrets and telling the boss. It's also strange that everyone's hearing about the salary issue. I think you should try to find that person; you'll be able to tell who is being a sycophant. 😅
Sharing your personal life publicly is already a risk. Your boss may not have done this with bad intentions. Even in a friendly environment, you still need to be careful. Not everything can be discussed among people 😂
