So guys, I caught my girlfriend the other day checking out my ex's Instagram account. When I asked her why she did it, she said, 'I was just curious.' But honestly, it didn't feel sincere at all. What does that even mean? Do you think this is something normal, or should I be worried? Am I overthinking this?
What kind of logic is this? Does he have nothing else to do but stalk his ex? Honestly, if I were him, I would just ask directly what he's curious about. The jealousy here is obvious, but I don't understand why he wouldn't focus on his relationship instead of being interested in others.
I don't think it's curiosity or anything, it seems a bit obsessive. A friend of mine's girlfriend did the same thing back then, and then she said, 'I'm comparing him to her.' Honestly, it's not a healthy behavior.
Wait a minute, why is your ex's account still open for everyone to see? It seems like you're looking back at old chapters; maybe there’s just an issue related to your past? First, take a moment to ask yourself, is this situation really about you?
Such situations are usually related to a person's self-confidence. Someone who feels inadequate often wonders about their partner's past relationships. But this is not a healthy thing; the main issue is the current relationship dynamics. If you don't talk about this, it might lead to other problems later on.
Let me update you, some have asked. I have absolutely no communication with my ex, in fact, I have already removed them from my life. However, it feels like my partner dwells on the topic too much whenever we talk about the past.
I think your girlfriend is being completely paranoid; she may not even trust you. It's as if she wants to check your past. Take a look at whether you are open with each other here.
