Yesterday I left my tampon in the bathroom, and my boyfriend saw it and told me it meant nothing and that using pads was more natural and healthier. Honestly, I got a bit irritated, because this is entirely my choice and related to my body. But on the other hand, I wonder if there's jealousy or control behind it. Do men have the right to comment this much on something like this, or is it just about me?
I really don't like conversations like this. It's like passing judgment on a woman's body... I also use tampons; they feel more comfortable. My boyfriend has no right to make such a comment. I would react immediately.
Well, would he normally get involved in such matters? I mean, it's not just about the bumper, it's about clothing, going out, and all that. I'm curious, does he always talk like this?
@zehra_ It doesn't really interfere that much, but sometimes there are odd comments about little things like this. For example, there was one time when they said something about me putting on makeup. It's not completely forbidden, but there are these tiny little nudges.
@deniz44 I think we shouldn't be so harsh. Maybe they just thought it was something health-related and shared their opinion. People should learn what their partners think rather than just talking about it. Immediately saying 'they're interfering with my body' might be a bit of an exaggeration.
Using tampons is completely your decision. Your boyfriend should understand that, say it clearly.
I would definitely start an argument in such a situation. Honestly, such things related to the pad style don't feel comfortable to me at all. If my girlfriend says something about it, I wouldn't care about her feelings. After all, we're talking about the female body; if we weren't embarrassed, it would be like we need to ask for permission.
This topic might have grown a bit unnecessary. Maybe your partner just shared their opinion. Everyone can have different thoughts on such matters. The decision is of course yours, but it can be listened to after all 😂
I think it's wrong to express an opinion on a topic that hasn't been asked for. And it's not even a health issue. I mean, should we explain why someone uses a tampon by detailing their menstrual cycle?
If you enter the healthy part for tampon use, there is already incorrect information presented. Both can be ideal depending on different needs. It's a topic that men don't quite understand; I think you should take a good look at what you're discussing.
