My mother-in-law constantly checks my husband's social media accounts. She observes everything I do. This situation really bothers me, but my husband stands by her side. So things aren't going very friendly right now. Isn't my opinion important? It seems like my mother-in-law finds me overly protective and a bit controlling.
Come on, mother-in-law policing on Instagram... give me a break.
Mine was also stalking who was online on WhatsApp for a while, it was driving me crazy. Does your spouse find this situation normal?
So why is your spouse not saying anything about this? There's no privacy even on their account, right? 🤦♀️
@uykuarasi because he also thinks that his mother is right. He said something like, 'everyone in our family is responsible for each other.'
@sorankisi, can such things happen? Is your own mom on the same logic? I think you should react, otherwise it will keep going on like this.
@hatconene Reacting will only complicate things further. First, he needs to have a calm conversation with his wife. Putting the blame directly on the mother-in-law will only escalate the situation.
The dynamics within the family are very important in such a situation. It is necessary to find a common ground with your partner. Perhaps if you direct them to family therapy, you can discuss the situation together in a healthier way.
