Things had been going well with my girlfriend for a while, but last night I noticed she liked a post from her ex on Instagram. What's more, the photo was an old picture of the two of them together. When I saw this, my world literally shattered. Should I talk to her or wait to see how she explains it? Could she still have feelings for him?
I wouldn't believe the story that she "accidentally" put up. You don’t leave a heart on a photo with your ex, right? 😅
Sure, but why are you wasting time getting worked up about this alone? Go talk to the guy and ask him what the story is.
Where did you notice this? Are you doing regular stalking or did it just happen to come up somehow? 😐
I noticed while scrolling through @iki_dakika's stories that it just popped up in front of me as if placed there intentionally. But this isn't the first time, actually; they had liked one of my photos before.
The ex-boyfriend situation aside, if he has done this before and you stayed silent, it seems like the guy has no limits. If you continue knowing this, it feels like there’s nothing left to do.
If we're being honest, this situation might cause issues regarding the individual's boundaries and transparency in the relationship. Ask for an explanation, but do so without a blaming tone. Of course, their story may not make sense, that's a different matter 😅
I saw someone accidentally liking something, but I didn't hear about anyone accidentally sending a heart in their story. Isn't that a bit too much goodwill? :)
@benbisorayim I think this much fine-tuning is excessive. The guy either isn't concerned at all or he's in the mindset of 'I follow the old ways, nobody can interfere.' Both will cause issues in the long run. 😬
I wouldn't have expected that from you. Anyway, you know better.
