Beden & Özgüven28 Nisan 2026

I told you to take 10 centimeters from the ends!

I went to the hairdresser and told them to take off just a bit from the ends, I even emphasized it because I hadn't cut my hair in a long time, and I had gathered it with care. But the result? They cut about 10 centimeters. I'm literally experiencing a hairdresser's tragedy. Now every time I look in the mirror, I feel sad, and I'm stressed that the people around me will say something. How can I recover from this? I guess I have to walk around with this lack of confidence.

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benbisorayim

That's right, I always say you need to clearly explain to the hairstylist what you want. In fact, if necessary, show a flash example with a photo. But even if you say something extreme, their understanding is different. Because long hair, for them, means 'unkept' or something like that. Even if you are clear, they impose their own aesthetic judgment.

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soncaykaldi

But you said something at the beginning like I warned a lot, what exactly did you say? Like, did you say "don't cut it any more" or something like, "take a little but don't make it shorter"? Sometimes clarity is important, maybe I misunderstood 🙄

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kahvebitmeden

@sorgulayan I said, 'just take the unhealthy parts but keep the length the same, don't mess up what I've gathered'. And it was at shoulder level, now it's pretty much below the ears...

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cokdaseyapma

@soran Just look, I'm going to say something. If they did this after all that talk, either they really pretended not to understand or they wanted to try a different approach with you. Sometimes they just think "this would suit you" and do whatever they want. I think they did it on purpose...

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makarnaoncesi

@dedikoducu I partially agree with what you're saying, but let me add this: there is a reflex in hairdressers: doesn’t it happen that to get rid of split ends, a slight straight cut is a must? It does. I think you should first go to your hairdresser, sit down, and talk openly, asking if there's an option for a correction. But these things can also happen from small misunderstandings, so let's not jump to conclusions.

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