My girlfriend made a comment about my sister's outfit

Honestly, I would suggest having a clear conversation with your girlfriend about this. Saying 'Why does she dress like that?' is a violation of boundaries. Your sister can dress however she wants, and she doesn’t owe anyone an explanation. Your girlfriend making such a comment could be a sign that she might feel entitled to comment on your clothing choices in the future as well.

Why did your girlfriend say that? I mean, does she usually get hung up on stuff like this, or did she say something specific to your sister's style? Has she ever commented on clothing issues with you before? 😳

@annelikduygulari actually never interfered with me, this is the first time she made such a comment. Maybe she assessed my sister differently or is it jealousy, I'm not sure.

@ozgurlukcumelek I don't think it's something that should be blown out of proportion. The guy just shared his opinion; some clothing might not appeal to everyone. There's no need to exaggerate this as male dominance or anything.

The important issue here is to understand the intention behind your partner's criticism. If they are expressing that they do not like an outfit, that is a matter of personal taste. However, if they are questioning your sister's fashion style by asking, 'Why this way?', it could be a sign of mild control. You need to clarify their intention to determine if there is a boundary violation. You can calmly ask, 'Why did you make that comment?' when you inquire.

Honestly, I can't agree with your sister either. Everyone has their own circle, and people look out for each other. Being a family is about balance. If your sister is overdoing it, that might be why your partner reacted. We also shouldn't lose touch with our own culture.

@gelenekseltavsiyeler I think you shouldn't limit anyone by 'tradition'. No matter how old a woman is, she decides what to wear for herself. It's time to stop using that as an excuse for men.