A friend of mine clearly said that they are very jealous of my fiancée. Honestly, I don't quite understand this situation and it makes me a bit uncomfortable. My friend is telling my fiancée things that suggest she will cheat on me by giving her bad examples. How can I overcome such a situation? I can understand it to a certain extent, but isn't this going too far?
I had a friend who constantly talked bad about my boyfriend. After a while, I realized that she was actually interested in him. I mean, jealousy sometimes serves as an excuse for other issues 🤦♀️
I swear, friendships like this can't continue. It's good to have guidance before marriage, but why are those who bring discord still by your side? I think you should be careful with your selection of friends. Engagements and weddings aren't for everyone.
Why are you letting your friend play such a role in your life? You're saying they're jealous of your fiancé and have even talked about cheating. I still don’t understand why you’re giving them space.
Has this friend intervened like this in their relationships before? I mean, is it just that they can't stand their fiancée, or is it a general trait of theirs?
@pazardandondum is actually not doing this for the first time, but they hadn't spoken so openly before. Usually, they always had a critical attitude towards my relationships 🙂
@hatconene I think you see things a bit too black and white. Sometimes people can say the wrong things, and it's not so easy to just cut them out of your life.
@cokdaseyapma okay, but if your friend is saying that they cheat on your fiancé, then you really need to think about it now. Tolerating such a statement would be silly.
I think you should definitely have a talk. Tell your friend that you're uncomfortable, and also tell your fiancée not to bring these kinds of topics up. Keep things secure 🥲
I find this friend to be too unnecessary.
Does your friend know your fiancé, or is he just making these comments out of the blue? If he doesn't know him, where does that confidence come from, for example? If he does know him, is your fiancé aware of this? It's a weird dynamic 😬
The main question that should be asked here is why his friend made this statement now. I mean, if he's saying something heavy like his fiancé will cheat on him, is there a concrete reason for this, or is it purely out of a jealousy crisis? Because those two lead to very different places.
