I told my boyfriend that I heard something about him texting his ex three weeks before our wedding. It really upsets me because he has never done something like this before. Now I feel insecure and don’t know what to say. I’m also considering my family’s reaction in this situation; I don’t want everything to fall apart.
what will someone do after this if they do it before the wedding 
So who told you this? Did you see the messages or is it just gossip?
I heard from someone my mom knows @kahvebitmeden. I didn’t see the messages, but they said it very confidently.
It’s not healthy to get caught up in such things during wedding stress without being certain. I think proof is needed first 
@aklimkaldi how solid is the thing you’re talking about? Maybe the person mixed it up or they might have relayed it incorrectly 
This cannot be resolved without speaking openly. Express your feelings and ask for a clear answer.
Still, the confusion is really terrible. With just 3 weeks to the wedding… oh my.
Don’t make harsh decisions without seeing the messages, but definitely talk. Both sides get tense before the wedding.
If there is no evidence, talking is problematic too. If the guy didn’t do such a thing, you will unjustly undermine trust. It’s risky to blow this out of proportion without seeing the messages.