Do men never forget compliments?

I read somewhere that men rarely receive compliments, so they can remember even a single comment like 'your shirt looks nice' for years, and it made me think a lot. We girls say nice things to each other more comfortably, but it seems to be less common among men. The other day at work, I told a colleague 'your hair looks good,' and it seemed like he walked a little taller all day. Do men really take compliments so seriously, or is it just me?

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benbisorayim

I think it's true. A girl told my cousin, "your perfume is nice," and the kid bought the same perfume for two years. He still remembers the girl's name 😅

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cokdaseyapma

As a man, I’m saying that someone told me my jacket looked nice in 2019. I still haven’t thrown it away. It’s that clear.

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yazipsildim

This is also about men not saying nice things to each other. The joke "Are you gay?" starts flying around, and then everyone walks around starved for compliments 😂

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aklimkaldi

But some men also interpret compliments as flirting. That's why women might hesitate to give compliments randomly, and this needs to be discussed.

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icimdengecmis

That's the problem right there. Because you said "Your shoes are nice," the guy who is supposed to be the groom is left without compliments, just like a normal guy. 😅

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makarnaoncesi

I actually hesitate about this too. Sometimes I remain silent because I wonder if I'll be misunderstood when I compliment someone. But the guy at work really just seemed happy, and oddly enough, it warmed my heart 😅

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biseydiycem

I once told my ex-girlfriend, 'your voice sounds nice over the phone,' and even after we broke up, she reminded me of that. I guess guys keep a compliment archive.

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kirmizikazak

I think net and safe compliments are nice: like 'the shirt suits you', 'your presentation was good', 'your hair looks nice'. Praising the person's behavior/style instead of the person reduces misunderstandings 😅

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pazardandondum

Looking at it like Ada, the detail that seems small here is actually at the center of the issue. If I were you, I wouldn't make a definite decision without asking about that detail.

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