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My spouse stopped the washing machine with laundry inside

The other day I threw my underwear in the washing machine, and when my spouse went into the bathroom for a task, they noticed and stopped the machine. They were bothered by a menstrual stain and said, "Wouldn't it be better to wash this separately?" Honestly, I felt embarrassed but at the same time, I was angry. After all, it's a natural thing. Haven't you experienced something like this before? If your spouse reacted this way, how do you handle it?

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cokdaseyapma

It happened to me once too. We didn't argue at that moment, but later I sat down and talked about it. It seemed like they didn't completely understand that it was a natural thing. I had to explain a bit.

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uykuarasi

So did he just suddenly get upset for no reason? I don’t get it. Had he never seen it before?

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makarnaoncesi

@camliperde actually knew she was on her period but linked it to hygiene when she saw it on the laundry.

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bugundegil

@kulpusoran is talking about hygiene, but I think we need to look for something else underneath. It's not something that needs to be blown out of proportion.

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icimdengecmis

Washing colored laundry separately makes sense from a hygiene perspective, but the discomfort it creates between partners is a different issue. It seems like it can be overcome through communication.

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birazgarip

Saying "communication overcomes it" with @temizcevap is not a solution. It's like he can't differentiate between a man's period and hygiene.

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hatconene

@uyukalbi it's not that simple, people might have sensitivities. do we really have to normalize everything?

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