We've been married for 2 years, and it seems like some things have changed recently. He spends more time on his phone and doesn't share his password. He said he has something "private," but we are married, so what is he talking about? Am I too jealous, or is there really something going on? Should I speak openly about it, or should I stay calm and let things unfold?
What kind of logic is this? Is there really a private space in marriage? It’s all about trust! What if they give the password or not? If they had nothing to hide, they would share it. I think instead of escalating this, you should just straightforwardly ask, 'Why aren’t you sharing it?' You'll get a clear answer.
I read somewhere that married couples are supposed to share their phone passwords. Otherwise, it's considered a lack of trust. So, I think it's an unwritten rule; everyone has been doing it for years anyway. I don't understand why there's resistance to it.
So you say it's a private matter, but isn't there something odd about all this secrecy? You've been married for two years, haven't you ever talked about it before? When did this whole hiding the password thing start? Maybe you're running away from something else.
Honestly, whenever I come across relationship therapists, I always hear the saying, 'everyone should have their own personal space.' This is completely related to marriage dynamics. But if transparency is important to you, you need to express your expectations clearly. Otherwise, everyone will just say, 'this is my space' and avoid the issue.
Thank you for the comments I've seen. I also want to add that I actually asked about this password issue before, but I hadn't paid much attention to it. I've noticed that recently, he has been spending more time on his phone. Now that it's back on the agenda, to be honest, I'm afraid it will cause a discussion.
