The other day, my girlfriend liked a photo of her ex. When she talked about that time, I felt like she was still thinking about him. How should I behave in a situation like this? It feels like it's not very sincere. Do you think this situation is wrong?
I mean, it's a bit weird but I can't say anything definite 😬
Has he explained this to you? For example, why did he like it?
"I didn't ask, but I'm constantly drying up inside, you see."
@aklimkaldi why aren’t you asking? Just speak directly, you can’t keep turning things over in your head like this 🫠
I mean, liking your ex's photo feels like disrespect to me. Freedom and all that is one thing, but boundaries are necessary 🤷♀️
@soncaykaldi I think you're overreacting; it's just a like after all, there doesn't have to be an emotional event behind it 🙄
Why didn't you ask "what's this?" when you realized it? When things aren't talked about while they're hot, they turn into bigger issues. If you like it, maybe it’s for no reason, but you're blowing it out of proportion with your suspicions without listening to the explanation.
Maybe they liked someone who just looks like their ex? Or maybe they clicked out of habit without thinking. Coming up with a conclusion without being sure just leads to unnecessary pondering.
