Recently, my mom keeps saying, 'Get this done, get that done,' but I love myself as I am. I feel like I'm under pressure inside. I really believe that beauty comes from within, but my family's expectations are stressing me out. I want to look for another solution.
I'm even sad to hear that.
I experienced the same thing. My mom put so much pressure on me that at one point, in front of my friends, she even joked, 'Why haven't you had your nose done yet?' In the end, we argued and dropped the subject.
So, is the part about friends getting work done... does everyone around you really have cosmetic procedures? Is it that common for people now?
@yazipsildim honestly, there are some people around me who are getting it done, but not that many. I think my mom is exaggerating, but her pressure is still tiring me out, ugh 🙄
@kahvebitmeden you said you told your mother we cut it, but has it solved anything? I don't think people who will put that much pressure will let it go so easily.
it's really entirely your decision. If you want to do it, you can, but if you don't, no one can force you. Maybe you can try talking openly with your family to reduce the pressure; you need to set a clear boundary 🤔
It's actually a matter of the event. Families shouldn't impose psychological burdens on people with a mindset of 'what would your friends say.'
