It feels like our sexual life is over in marriage...

I've experienced something similar; it started with talks about fatigue, just like you mentioned. Then I realized that my spouse and I weren't even touching anymore. It turned out the issue was anxiety, so we started therapy. It helped; at least we understood the problem. I suggest you give it a try.

I believe a sex therapist is essential in such situations. You should go together with your partner because the cause may not just be you or them. It's better to talk about it without personalizing it. For the first step, you need to clearly explain the problem to them without avoiding it.

Let me be clear, it seems like you've focused a lot on your spouse's excuses here. But don't you have any responsibility in fixing this situation? Maybe you didn't try to understand their exhaustion or help them relax. Did you only think about their fragility? 🥲

Such disruptions in sexuality often arise from communication issues. When partners are not open enough with each other, it can turn into a worsening problem. In such cases, working with a therapist as a couple on communication strategies becomes important.

You're right, after thinking about it a bit, I realized that I haven't shared my problems much either. I've been focused on why he has become distant. Maybe I didn't even know where to start the conversation. But I've started to seriously consider the therapy thing. Thank you for your advice.