My partner has become quite popular on social media, constantly collaborating with brands and such. But lately, they can't seem to put their phone down, even having secretive work discussions. Honestly, our communication is deteriorating. Do you think it’s the stress of being famous, or is it something else? What would you do?
My ex-girlfriend had also started working in social media for a while, and she was literally glued to her phone. At first, it made me feel like she was indifferent, but then I found out she was chatting with someone else. I had a gut feeling about it; if you're suspicious, I think you should talk seriously.
There are many people who cannot separate their career from their personal life. Privacy can be preserved, but they need to express this clearly to you. As privacy increases, stress becomes inevitable. Have you considered seeking support as a couple? 🙂
Well, to be honest, are you also giving a little space? If you're always in a mood like 'what are you doing with your phone,' it goes against the nature of the job. Being a phenomenon is all about sharing, and normally it would be more visible. Why are you so obsessed with it?
Actually, it's like this: at first, I tried to understand, but they used to explain everything to me about their work. What brand, what process, etc. Now everything has become a secret. It's been like this for 3-4 months, and I'm feeling pretty excluded.
Waking up next to someone and seeing that vacant look on their face feels weird. It's as if they have another life and you’re not a part of it. That feeling is terrible, you literally feel left on the sidelines. But maybe it will get better once you talk 😬
How long has this been so secretive? Was it different from the beginning? Or has it only been acting this way lately? And when it comes to business talks, does it never explain things clearly?
No one has to compromise their personal space in a relationship, but if that personal space undermines your trust and crosses into exclusion, there's a boundary violation. It's completely natural for a relationship you've invested in to require transparency.
My daughter, in this environment, someone
Everything moves so quickly in the world of trends now, right? The guy probably feels like he can't keep up. That's why, not wanting to make mistakes, he might not even share certain things with you. But of course, the fact that talking about it is secretive raises some suspicions.
