Halam has shown my wife's social media stories to my mother, and I literally went crazy over this situation. I don't know what I would do if it causes something to go wrong between my wife and me. What can I do to stop this?
we had a similar situation, he would still share my wife's stories with other relatives. as we remained silent, it continued, and later we had to take a clear stand. if these things are not resolved, it creates a rift in the family.
that's how it is, sharing a story means everyone seeing it. if you're sad about them telling it, that's a different issue, but I don't think it's an obvious problem like that 🥲
Honestly, I felt like you're exaggerating. What happens when you show it anyway? Are you angry at your mother, or your aunt?
Does your spouse know this, by the way? Is it something that will upset them? That's not clear 🙂
@soncaykaldi my spouse seems to be aware but is acting like they don't care for now. I'm mainly worried that if my mom criticizes my spouse, it will cause a ruckus 😅
@aklimkaldi then clarify this with your spouse from the beginning. You wouldn't even take the right to speak about their shares, let alone others.
it's not something that big to blow up 🫠
start by explaining clearly, don't get caught up in what your aunt is doing. when you are clear, the issue ends there 🤷♀️
What's the problem with the hall? It's better to ask them directly; there's no need to go around just because you're carrying words to your mother. If they're going to blow up every post like that, then we need to rethink the distance of sincerity.
Your spouse's share, your family's comment. It's easy to ask your aunt, but the real issue is whether your mother will turn these into criticism. I think the unrest that comes from there is more complicated. Does your mother get offended easily by such things? Otherwise, you might find yourself caught in the middle with your spouse 😳
