I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend and now I took a pregnancy test, but I'm keeping the result secret. I actually don't want a child, but how do I tell her? I'm scared that if my family finds out, I could be embarrassed.
it's already obvious you didn't want it, why weren't you protected?
Do you at least know what the result of the pregnancy test was?
@kahvebitmeden yes, it's negative, but I'm still scared; I couldn't talk about the test because I was afraid my family would find out.
@aklimkaldi if it’s negative, why are you still making such a big deal out of it? Just say it outright.
If the result was negative, there's no need to worry, but if this stress continues psychologically, talk to your partner about it again and make sure to use protection next time. It would be healthier to share the test result instead of keeping it to yourself.
I experienced a similar situation; you can speak openly and feel relieved. Your partner will understand the family part.
@yazipsildim even if the test comes back negative, fear is psychological; it's easy to talk, of course.
