Lately, her constant desire to get pregnant is making me think. She brings it up every day, sometimes seriously asking when we will have a child. I’m not ready for that yet, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings either. This obsession is overwhelming me; what should I do?
It’s the same with me; my spouse insisted on having a child after two years. At one point, they were even picking names every day. I openly said, ‘I can’t say I’m ready yet,’ and it took a few months, but it passed. It won’t resolve itself without a conversation, let me tell you.
How many years have you been together and what is your financial situation like? Because sometimes they come with those calculations.
@uykuarasi We have been together for 3 years. The financial part is actually complete; there is no problem in that regard.
You say the economy is fine, but you’re saying it’s not ready; what does that mean now? If it’s not financial, is it emotional? It seems like it won’t be solved without understanding the real reason.
@biseydiycem maybe personal space? If money solved everything, everyone would have kids. I don’t think we should force anyone.
The desire for pregnancy stems from multiple factors, which could include the biological clock or environmental influences. It’s important to talk honestly about it and understand the psychology behind this desire. A family counselor can be helpful in this regard.
Wow, that’s a lot of pressure. I’m deducing that from this. 