Last night, I had a little argument with my mother-in-law. It was again about the house arrangement, and no matter how careful I am, I can’t seem to please her. In the evening, I opened the cupboard in a stress, and I found that half a bag of chips was gone. This cycle is really driving me crazy. What would you do in this situation?
I used to be like that too; mine would always say “it’s been cleaned, but not quite right.” I stayed quiet for years, but then I gave them a piece of my mind once, and it never happened again. Don’t let yourself be pushed around.
Do you live in the same house? I mean, why is there no interference like this?
@uykuarasi yes, we are staying here for a while due to financial troubles. but this is not the first time, it wears me out in every way.
If only giving up a share would solve it, these people won’t give up their habits. They truly see that house as their own.
Speaking of the stress-eating cycle, be careful if it keeps increasing. What we call binge eating comes from stress. It would be good for you to stay in touch with a dietitian.
But look, I’m gonna say something, when you’re living in the same house, the order inevitably gets mixed up. Nobody’s home organization perfectly fits someone else’s standards, I think the expectations are too high.
this kind of home situation is unacceptable. either stay quiet or move out.
I think the issue isn’t order, but a display of power. It seems like they’re trying to establish superiority by constantly finding faults and commenting. It might be more effective to stop getting caught up in order and say, “This many comments is a bit too much.” Have you ever tried it?