My sister was very excited, but I was shocked to learn that she had texted her ex a few times the day before the wedding. I'm really curious about why she had those conversations and how this will affect her on the wedding day. Will my sister take this seriously
I saw a similar situation with my cousin
Let me ask this: how did you find out he was messaging his ex? Did your sister tell you herself or did you notice it?
@kahvebitmeden I noticed when you left your phone on the table, at that moment I didn't want to misunderstand, so I didn't open it, but it showed in the notifications. Then I asked, and they said, 'we just reminisced about the old days.'
@soncaykaldi everyone's situation is not the same. Talking to an ex the day before the wedding is not a light topic. I don't think it's something that can be quickly brushed aside.
if the situation bothers you, talk openly with your brother. you can really ask if it was just a friendly correspondence. irrational things can happen due to pre-marital stress, but is this guy someone who could come to the wedding, for example? that needs to be clarified.
to be honest, I couldn't handle this
I think the best thing for you to do from now on is this: stay calm, clearly ask your brother about your intentions, and if necessary, you can talk after the wedding. Resolve the issue now without making it too complicated; otherwise, it will be more confusing on the wedding day.
It's meaningful that he communicated with his ex a day in advance, but his explanation of "we were just reminiscing about the good old days" seems a bit superficial as a defense. Even if that's true, it's important to understand why this conversation happened now. Did you ask who initiated this exchange?
