Is it normal for my husband to chat frequently on Instagram with an old coworker?

So how long has this been going on? I mean, they could talk every now and then, but since you mentioned that we’re constantly messaging, it caught my attention. Have you ever come across any of their messages, for example?

I think there's more than just work involved, because if it were just work, the messages wouldn't be this frequent. Liking and commenting on Stories and all that feels a bit strange, to be honest. Are you sure there's nothing else going on? 🙂

Sometimes men do "innocent flirty" things on social media, but that doesn't necessarily lead to something physical. If you're feeling overly uncomfortable, you could try suggesting, "Let's take a look at our conversations" to gauge where things stand.

I'll update you, I haven't looked at your messages at all, but for example, the other day a woman shared a song in her story, and my husband commented on it. It wasn't even related to what the guy does, it was pretty irrelevant. Anyway, I want to ask directly but I'm a bit hesitant.

I've heard that men play the 'alpha role' when chatting with former colleagues. That's why they wouldn't want to lose interest. Do you know about that event? I think it might be because of that 🙄

Come on, I don't think it needs to be dramatized that much. Your husband has already clearly told you that "we're talking business." Maybe he’s maintaining a sincere friendship due to his old ties. Pushing it that hard might be a bit much.