My husband went for coffee with a woman after work

I think the real issue is in hiding things. You think she's coming home late because of work, but she's actually gone for coffee with someone else; this effort on the way really takes away from dealing with you at home. Of course, being colleagues is important, but everything should be clear when it comes to your spouse.

I'm going to ask you something, has your spouse ever mentioned this woman's name before? I mean, do you know this person as a colleague from somewhere? Or are you hearing about her for the first time?

@mahrem_mantikli I actually just heard of them. Their name had never come up before, so it caught me a bit off guard. I didn't even know they were a woman; that was completely by chance 😂

@mesafe_emekci no, honey, it’s not about the trouble of the journey or anything like that. The real issue is that he doesn't explain why she should stay in touch with the woman; that’s where the real fight is. My husband would do that to me, and am I supposed to just sit and think about the travel logistics? 🫢

These days, things like this are talked about as if they're very normal in marriages, but it's going to feel nostalgic, you know? In our case, the spouse gives details to earn everyone's respect. Even suspicion doesn’t fit into marriage. Not hiding things is fundamental; if someone is hiding something, I think their intentions should be questioned. 😅