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my mom had strange pressures like this too at one point, but it seemed more related to not wanting to get any gossip in her circle. maybe yours is like that too? try having a conversation.
I hope you don’t mind me saying this, but I think it’s a problem that your mom views every relationship as something that should end in marriage. I mean, no one starts a relationship with any guarantees; she could be a little more relaxed about it.
How old are you? Mothers usually nag more when we are younger because of this.
@camkenari I’m 23 years old. I think my mom’s fears are somewhat related to whether I can get married or not because she often says, ‘If men are serious about their intentions, they’ll show it.’
@aklimkaldi Your mother might actually be speaking from her own context. However, marriage decisions can be made later nowadays, so differences between her expectations and your relationship are normal. To ease the pressure, maybe you can talk about feelings and expectations with her in a calm place.
@hatconene If we relax that much, no one will have good relationships with their family members anyway. Completely disregarding your mother’s concerns is not the solution; there should be a little balance.
I think you’re right, I’ll give it a try.