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Para & Ekonomi29 Nisan 2026
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My fiancé wants to take out a loan for the wedding venue

My fiancé wants to take a loan to have a big and extravagant wedding like we envisioned. But I don’t want to start our marriage with debt. With costs for gold, the venue, food, etc., expenses are already high. He thinks our savings won’t be enough, but I believe we can have a more modest celebration. He’s being relaxed about it, saying we can pay it back later. Do you think it’s sensible to go into debt for a big wedding like this?

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uzaktanbaktim

You say "We'll pay later," and that sentence just took me out of myself. Is it really that easy to manage those debts later on?

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caybardagi

If my daughter were my daughter, I would never allow it. Marrying with debt means inviting conflicts from the very beginning. Be clear with your fiancé.

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sessizmod

A big wedding isn't mandatory for marriage, but it seems to have turned into a power play here. It feels like the guy is trying to convince you by framing the expenses as something you 'have to' do.

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fazlakurcalama

Who first came up with this idea? Are families involved in this as well? Or is it just completely the fiancée's dream?

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kapionu

Don't do it. Choose a small organization. The marriage loan business is really difficult, especially with these interest rates. Marriage is already going to be full of expenses 🙂

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kirmizikazak

In a similar situation, we had a big wedding at my spouse's insistence. The result? 2 years of bonus credit card payments. If you ask us now, we say, 'we should have just done something simple.'

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soguksu

@kirmizikazak, why couldn’t you say ‘no’ to your wife? You can’t accept it and then complain later; it doesn’t work like that.

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