My fiancée keeps telling her family every detail

I had the same thing happen to me. But mine would share everything with his family even at the engagement stage. At first, it seemed cute, but then, like you said, when it started to go into private matters, I got fed up, but by then it was too late. I would advise you to be very careful.

Did you notice this for the first time, or has it always been like this? For example, has she shared other things before the dowry list?

@camkenari this has actually happened before, but they were always smaller things; generally, they are someone who is very fond of their family. This time, they really put me in a difficult position 🫢

@kirmizikazak yeah, but there’s also the fact that things like this are a bit normal in engagement. After all, family is involved. Giving the list is excessive, but seeing the engagement completely as an individual thing is also strange 🙄

Why did you write 'my fiancé carries everything to his family' as the title and then put a dowry list example in the content? I thought it was a more general situation; it seems like you haven't fully addressed the topic 🥲

Some things should stay between couples. Talk to your fiancé about this and explain what they shouldn't share 😅

It can't be. It was a clear boundary for me.

@aklimkaldi if you haven't spoken up until now, they might find that natural. But if you don't set boundaries, it will continue like this; you need to be direct.

@benbisorayim isn't it a bit over the top? Do you really need therapy just because a list was sent to your family?