My sister has started hanging out with her ex-boyfriend and just told me about it. It’s something that makes her happy, but I still can’t quite get used to this situation. So how should I react to this? Am I thinking about it wrong?
it’s annoying to have things like this
My brother was meeting up with his ex for a while, and everyone misunderstood the situation. Turns out he was just trying to close an account. Maybe yours is something like that too.
So why did I tell you this now? How many months has the event been?
@yazipsildim this situation is quite new, I think it started last week. I tried to understand if there is any intimacy between us, but she said, ‘we’re just friends.’
If they were a friend, why did they feel the need to inform you? I think you’re right to be confused.
@pazardandondum yeah, you’re right, that makes sense, it could also be a friend mask.
There are generally research studies that see being friends with an ex as having a high risk of infidelity. But it’s not always like that. You know better how honest your sibling is. They’ve already stated it clearly; it’s a matter of trust.
If you see that this is going on, I think you should sit down and openly ask, ‘This situation bothers me, why are you still in contact?’ It’s not good to keep imagining things in your head.