Last night I took a test by myself and it came back positive. Now I don't know what I should do, I'm all confused. Should I talk to my boyfriend or should I see a doctor first? I'm terrified about what will happen if my mom finds out. Should I share this or keep it secret for now?
I was also confused about what to do when I first learned that the test result came back positive. I went to a doctor right away because tests can sometimes be misleading. But I told my partner immediately, as their reaction was important to me.
Your friend said, "if you hide it, trust will be shaken," but I don't think that's very true. It's pointless to talk to your partner without being sure by going to a doctor. What if it's a false alarm? It just creates unnecessary stress for a person.
Pregnancy tests generally provide accurate results, but none of them are considered definitive. If you've done a urine test, I would recommend confirming it with a blood test. Because there are many people who think they've seen a false positive at home.
You're right, I feel like I've panicked before even going to the doctor now. I scheduled an appointment for a blood test today. I've also decided to talk to my partner after seeing the doctor. Thank you for your ideas.
But girl, if you're so scared of your mother finding out, how will you trust your partner? If you want to share this with someone, at least get some accurate information from a doctor first, so your partner takes the situation more seriously.
