My period has been really off for the past 2 months. Normally, my cycle is very regular, but one time it was 10 days late and another time 15 days. My friend said, “It might be due to stress, don’t panic for no reason,” but on the other hand, my mom is pressuring me to “go to the doctor right away; it could be something serious.” I admit, I’m scared to go to the gynecologist. Do you think these delays are normal, or is seeing a doctor necessary?
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7I also had my period constantly shifting for a while, especially during exam weeks. They said it was due to stress, and it really was, but I still got a blood test done. Apparently, thyroid issues affect it too, whatever that means.
To be honest, I was really nervous during my first visit to the gynecologist; my mom literally dragged me there. But I saw a female doctor, and it went quite smoothly. If there’s a serious issue, you’ll notice it early, so I suggest not to neglect it.
What kind of logic is this? Can you really avoid the doctor because of privacy? It’s essentially the same as going to the dentist; you’re going for treatment. What will you do if something worse comes up and you’re late?
A late period can sometimes really be due to stress, but if it continues like this for 10-15 days, hormone tests are necessary. You should see a gynecologist or an endocrinologist; they will probably also check your ovaries with an ultrasound. It’s not something to be afraid of, just the uncertainty makes you feel worse.
Let me add something: I’ve never had delays like this before. My mom said, “it could be a cyst,” and I got really tense. But I’m just feeling indecisive because of all the uncertainties. Getting a doctor’s appointment seems daunting to me.
You’ve written that you’re afraid to go to the gynecologist, but is it that that’s stressing you out, or are you avoiding the results? Be honest; you can’t solve the fear without knowing its source.
Your friend said, “It must be from stress,” but honestly, everyone decided they were a doctor. If you ask your neighbor or friend about stuff like this, this is how it ends up; you really need to go straight to a doctor.