My girlfriend is asking me for a loan, do you think that's normal?

I think asking for a loan for a fresh relationship is a bit strange. Six months isn’t a short time, but how well do you really know each other? Plus, if you thought "is this a test?" when something like this happened, it means you already have doubts in your mind. I think you should speak openly and try to understand their intentions.

I'm really curious, what do they want this money for? Is it for an urgent health issue or debt repayment, or something simpler? If they clearly stated the reason for the expense, you might have a clearer understanding of their intentions. If they didn't explain it, I think you need to ask them about this part.

The phrase "don't get me wrong" would create a sense of insecurity for me. It feels like they're either hesitant to ask or, on the contrary, trying to half-heartedly appease me. It's interesting that they used this sentence while explaining, do you think they were genuine?

I've seen a few people around me fight over debt issues like this, so I understand you. You've said it's just a small amount, but if that amount is important to you, it can be confusing. I think you should ask about a 'repayment plan' or something, so at least this part doesn't turn into a joke.

Actually, when you think about it, people consult their closest ones when they find themselves in a difficult situation, so perhaps they think they have no other option. I don't know about the testing issue, but you mentioned 'he really needs it'; wouldn't it be healthier to question this part in more detail? Trust in a relationship is sometimes tested with such matters.

Thanks again for the comments, friends. Let me give a bit more detail. The amount is really small, the kind of money I would easily spend in daily life. But the issue isn't the money, it's more about the meaning behind doing this. He said he would pay me back, but we didn't discuss a date or anything. It wasn’t something related to health; he missed a payment. Meanwhile, I still feel like a test subject.

The main issue here is the balance of trust in your relationship and the boundaries. Some may find these things normal, while others may not. However, it's strange for it to feel like a 'test.' He should have made an assuring explanation instead of just saying "don't misunderstand me" to help him understand your sensitivity. If there's a problem with mutual transparency, this small money issue could lead to significant trust problems in the future.