Today, I saw that you were messaging your ex while taking your phone. Just when I thought we had overcome the trust issue, a doubt arose within me again. I don't know; I'm thinking about how I should handle the situation. Do you think this is normal, or is this a problem?
If I were in your place, I would go crazy.
Did you come across these messages or did he say it himself?
@kahvebitmeden didn't say it himself, I saw it by chance. But he had talked to his ex a couple of times before.
You say you just happened to see it, but you've already taken his phone, which I believe falls under checking.
I think you should ask directly, find out clearly what they're talking about. Waiting is uncomfortable 🥲
@yazipsildim, this checking business seems overly romanticized to me. If the messaging is wrong, it doesn't matter whose phone it's in.
I think there's still a connection. There’s no other reason to text an ex.
Some people advocate the idea of staying friends with an ex, but your consent is important here. There should be a sit-down conversation. Flirting that goes back to the past often stems from a sense of limitless possibility.
It seems really complicated, relationships should be easygoing.
