I received a new job offer from a foreign-based company. The salary and opportunities are very good. When I shared it with my partner, they said, ‘So you’re running away there because you can’t do it here,’ and completely belittled it. However, it’s a big step for me. I wasn’t expecting such a reaction when I was talking to them and seeking support. I don’t know how it will affect our relationship. What do you think should be done in such a situation?
Honestly, I wouldn’t have thought like your girlfriend. Receiving a job offer is an achievement, especially if it’s abroad. But from her reaction, I get the impression that she seems aware of her shortcomings and has a bit of jealousy. I think she’s getting tense because you’re going to work at a better place. But you would have expected her to be supportive instead of talking like this. Maybe you can explain your feelings again at a calmer time.
Your girlfriend misspoke, but I have to ask something — what will happen when you go there? Will the relationship turn into a long-distance one? Did you explain this to her and reassure her from the beginning? 
@ters_kose I actually didn’t speak as if my decision to go was final; everything is still very new. But I was expecting support, and that part made me sad 
@gizemci_estetik I think you’ve romanticized it unnecessarily. Her boyfriend might not have bad intentions, he could just be scared. I mean, he reacted naturally because the person he loves is leaving; not everyone can strategize like a professor after all.
In situations like this, it’s important to focus on the underlying emotion behind your partner’s reaction. For instance, your significant other may actually be feeling insecurity or fear of being alone. You can address this issue by seeking professional support or by establishing open communication together. But remember, your job offer is a personal decision, and it’s essential to evaluate it in a way that will support you in the long term.