One day my girlfriend liked her ex-boyfriend’s story on social media. This made me very uneasy because I know their history. Now I’m suspicious of her, but I want to talk to her first. What do you think this situation means?
Mine also kept their ex on social media. Even if there wasn’t a heart or anything, a similar coldness started; you know we eventually broke up. I can’t really trust these situations.
Why is he watching his ex-girlfriend’s story, by coincidence or because he’s stalking her? I think it’s very critical.
@ikidakika is on my watchlist, never unfollowed. As far as I can tell, they’re keeping up with the story regularly and had liked another post before.
@makarnaoncesi What’s with the sudden decision to break up? One would at least question it first; maybe the guy has no intention at all, it could just be a reflex.
Such actions on social media can sometimes be innocent, but they can also mean that there is still a connection to the past. You should ask directly, “why are you still following them, why is there such an interaction?” Healthy communication is essential.
I think you should ask openly. Otherwise, you’ll keep wondering in your mind.
@yazipsildim, stop going on about healthy communication like that; the guy might really be relying on his boldness. I think he should be confronted directly and see his reaction ![]()
When asking if they accidentally or intentionally portrayed that in the story, you need to consider if they were watching it regularly; understanding their intent is also essential. So, have you thought about whether they’ll become defensive when you bring this up, or will they calmly explain? ![]()