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Para & Ekonomi29 Nisan 2026
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What my girlfriend is doing with her salary: always begging for money

My partner asked me for a loan again this month. They have a salary and receive it regularly every month, but for some reason, they are constantly asking for money. At first, I couldn't understand it, so I thought I'd help, but it seems to have become a habit. I'm worried that if I don't lend them money, it will cause a problem. How do you think I can solve this without affecting our relationship?

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tamamda

My ex used to always beg for money, turns out he was losing it in gambling. I think you should investigate, it's not that desirable! 🤦‍♀️

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minibussonu

How many months have these debt issues been ongoing? Haven't you ever asked where the money is going?

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netdegil

@soncaykaldi it's been about a year, sometimes it's happening, I asked about the rent and bills, but the account just doesn't add up.

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kirmizikazak

@kahvebitmeden don't tie everything to gambling, people might have other issues as well.

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soguksu

if the salary is not enough, it's likely that there is no budget control. but if they are not keeping track, speak openly and ask for details. have them provide a spending list to create a budget 🙄

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baskahesap

I won't give it; it becomes a habit.

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yavasgel

the title 'what is my girlfriend doing with her salary' but then it seems like you've sweetly accepted her going into debt. Are you drawing a red line? I didn't get that.

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