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Cinsel Sağlık & Mahremiyet27 Nisan 2026
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My partner believes in urban legends, how can I talk to them about it?

While talking about contraceptive use, my girlfriend said, "the calendar method is sufficient; there won’t be an issue during the menstrual period." I can't trust this information, but she keeps saying, "everyone does this." How can I provide her with accurate information on this matter? Every discussion turns into "don’t you trust me?" Do you think I should be more straightforward about such topics, or is it better to stand my ground?

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aklimkaldi

Honestly, there's no such thing as being completely unable to get pregnant during your period. It can vary depending on your ovulation cycle. If you suggest using the calendar method, how do you think they'll react?

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fazlakurcalama

I thought you couldn't get pregnant during your period, that's what everyone says. Why isn't this such a common piece of information?

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kirmizikazak

What kind of logic is this? Just because it's that time of the month, is this a guarantee? Seems like no one has ever taken a biology class. Let’s say it’s 99% accurate, but what about that 1% chance?

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pazardandondum

The calendar method and similar approaches, like relying on the menstrual cycle, can be seriously risky. They all depend on personal hormonal regulation and when ovulation occurs. The most reliable methods for protection are scientifically proven options like condoms or hormonal contraceptives. I would recommend getting information from an expert before discussing other methods.

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makarnaoncesi

Let me add this too, when I mentioned it about the menstrual period, she said, 'but my friends always use this, haven't you heard?' So I think she sees things she hears from friends as more accurate. How can I bring up this topic again?

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