My girlfriend wants to share everything on social media, but I don’t

Girls, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 months and I’m really happy. But we have a conflict about one thing; she wants to share every moment on social media. I prefer to keep it more private. We’ve even fought about this. Do you think sharing this much is normal, or is the problem with me?

So for how many months has he/she been wanting to share every moment? I mean, did this just start or has it been like this from the beginning? Because if it has been like this from the beginning, it might be normal for him/her :slightly_smiling_face:

Ahaha, my friend also said to me, ‘But I want to show you to the world, what’s the matter?’ I laughed so much. I think there’s such a logic in the minds of these guys, it’s strange.

Let me tell you, seeing someone like that all the time makes you feel completely exposed. It’s really hard to relax when you’re always in the spotlight :joy:

I don’t know, but it feels like this strong desire to share is a bit like a “look at me, let everyone know” vibe. Could it be jealousy? Or is it tied to something about trust?

As a guy, I’ll say that I think he’s probably feeling proud. Like, ‘I have a girlfriend, I’m happy, let everyone know’ kind of vibe. But of course, if it’s bothering you, he needs to talk about it.

What kind of logic is this? Do you really have to shove your love in everyone’s face? Honestly, I think it’s a bit of a show. I can’t live my life for social media, it’s that clear.

Think about it this way: when you share constantly, people somehow start to spread gossip. ‘This love will wear off,’ or ‘You seem happy, but…’

Actually, this is quite common now. People sometimes use social media like a diary without even realizing it. I think you should understand their intention, but your own boundaries should also be clear.