Recently, a tension started among my friends on social media. They are openly criticizing each other, and I don't know what to do. While we should be standing together as mutual friends, this situation bothers me. Do you think I should intervene, or should I just watch from a distance and wait?
something similar happened around me too, two friends were constantly berating each other in public. at some point, I’d suggest talking to them and asking them not to leave you out 🤷♀️
Does it seem like one person is clearly right in this situation, or is it just complete nonsense from both sides?
@kahvebitmeden actually, neither of them seems very right. one criticized the other very openly, and the other didn't hold back. but this isn't the first time, they're also carrying old issues 🤷♀️
@soncaykaldi yeah, but how will it be possible to say this, no one can just say "don't involve me" out of nowhere. the atmosphere is going to explode afterwards 😮💨
I think old subjects might hold more than just gossip. Is there some event in the background that you don't know about with you? 🫠
Role division in social relationships arises when individuals do not resolve their past conflicts. If you want to intervene, you can ease the process by listening to both sides impartially. If it is causing you stress as well, distancing yourself is also a natural option.
@benbisorayim I don't think we need to think this academically, there's always going to be some rivalry in everyone's friend group. It makes more sense not to stir the waters.
If I were you, I would wait. I don't think there's any point in getting too involved and complicating things further.
definitely stay away, you don't want to be misunderstood.
