"There’s this kid who has been posting stories for a while now, but doesn’t message me at all. The stories seem like they hint at me, but it’s not clear. I talked to my friend, and they said, 'They might be giving you the green light.' But should I make a move, or should I just relax and wait? What would you do in this situation?"
I experienced the same situation, the guy was constantly posting meaningful stories but never writing anything. In the end, I replied to one of his stories, and he immediately started a conversation. Sometimes, when you take the first step, things get resolved.
The same happened to me; just when I was thinking 'is he implying that about me?' it turns out he was making a jab at his buddy. I didn't react at all because I wasn't sure, but I think you should ask about the situation first 😳
I think you're being a bit passive too. If you're taking something from his story, at least send him a heart. A guy wouldn't get into the expectation if he's interested; he would just write directly. Now he probably doesn't know what to do either.
Trying to communicate with someone through a story is actually a bit of a weak and passive method. If they are genuinely interested in you, they need to show it in another way and more clearly. Interpreting it as a green light can sometimes lead to misjudgment; it’s healthier to expect something a bit more concrete.
Let me update you: She posted another story today, there was a pretty clear song lyric in it, something like 'you love me too, what's the difference?' My friend told me to message her to be sure. But I'm still unsure.
Someone who indirectly implies things with stories and doesn't write explicitly is not making an effort. Why should you step up and put yourself out there for that person? The interested individual comes forward directly because they make an effort. Creating such ambiguity does not build trust for you either.
Girl, send a smiling face to a story, let's see how he reacts. The guy's intentions are pretty clear. The guys in my circle usually can't come up with excuses for stuff like that, they show their intentions directly 😳
