My aunt and mom interrogated my boyfriend

What's this logic? Why are you explaining to your aunt about your girlfriend? The boundaries of this situation were clear from the start.

My aunt and my mom were very involved in my relationship. One day, I spoke clearly and said, 'My love life is not yours.' There was an argument, but afterward, it made me feel more at ease.

So how much did you share your girlfriend with your aunt that she’s digging up material to use against your mom? This is the part I don't understand.

@camkenari I didn't actually explain everything like that. But I found myself talking about the frequency of our meetings and so on. I mean, I didn't give details, but it's enough.

@aklimkaldi you're seventy, so why are you still explaining? Your private life should be closed to your family first. If you can't set a boundary, no one else will do it for you.

I think there's something else going on. Did your girlfriend's aunt notice something about her, which is why she told your mom? If it's such a hot topic, there must be a reason 😂

The most basic thing about family boundary issues is this: if you decide how much to share and what to explain, things will be easier. However, to rectify the current situation, you can firmly close the topic by saying, 'I don't want you to be involved in this part.'